In every family the husband wants to advance the happiness of the wife and the wife wants to advance the happiness of the husband, but with their best intentions what is the result? they both cause the fall of each other. Who is to blame? No. It is their ignorance to blame. They know not in what lies the good of each other. If not always, mot of the time, this is the cause of troubles & miseries.
People think that by catering to or pampering the lower sensual prosperities of each other are advancing the happiness of each other. When they pamper the vanity of one another, they think that is for good. All this idea of good is based upon ignorance. Such importance ought to be removed and then every house will be a happy one.
Swami Ram Tirath.